Does anyone know what happened to this girl, Ttyna? It has been a month since she has bee online. Seems like she went poof. Is she working at another campsite, and/or under a different name?
The camgirl Lucylee / Ttyna has reappeared as the model Kaleesi. I wonder why she closed the Ttyna account. Someone else must have been bitten by her. She has changed her hair back to the black she had as Lucylee. And she has gone from a princess to a mother of dragons. She is now from England instead of Germany.
I’m new here and came across this (old) thread by accident.
I agree with 90%+ of what John Doe (above) says here. These girls are working on these sites to make money, by hook or by crook. ldwm24 got burned by this chick, but… can you blame her? I cannot. The business is simple: separate the client from his money by any means necessary. Anyone who believes the things these girls are saying has no one to blame but themselves.
While lots of these girls are in relationships, plenty of them are not. Lots of singletons amongst the camgirl ranks. And many of them are very decent girls/women (this thread notwithstanding!). You can use these sites as, essentially, dating sites but… you have to take a very, very different approach than a typical client.
First, you cannot expect to meet one of these girls in person if your first (or continuing) interaction is watching her strip and masturbate (etc) for you. This is not reasonable. Your first impression is completely blown. You are a client right out of the box and this is *almost* impossible to change. It is helpful to have two accounts – one in which you can see what kind of naughty stuff the girl will do (and whether this appeals to you), and the other in which you can try to make a “connection†– for lack of a better word – as “friends†(that is, just chatting). And for your “friends†account you should probably have a reasonable “story†for why you’re there which reduces/removes the pervert/loser factor. Maybe you’re studying the industry for a business project, maybe you’re doing academic research… there are lots of feasible options here.
Second, you need to not spend too much money from your “friends†account because if you do… you start to look like a client which is, of course, bad. (What’s the right number here? I don’t know, it’s not set in stone and depends on the circumstances, but maybe a few hundred dollars.) You need to move your communications off the site as quickly as possible. If she allows this, she *might* be interested.
Third, if she asks for money for any reason… bail out. But… create an opportunity for you to send her some money early on (birthday, etc) that she did *not* ask for. Again, not more than a few hundred dollars – enough to be meaningful but not so much that it looks like you’re trying to impress her (although you will be). Explicitly state that she owes you nothing – it’s a gift. This will earn you points.
Fourth, it sure helps to learn their language. A lot of these girls speak pretty good English, especially the Romanians (so it’s unnecessary). But personally I really like the Latinas, so I speak almost-fluent Spanish. It helps a *whole* lot.
Anyhow, it is not difficult to meet these girls in person (whether to develop a relationship, have a travel companion, or whatever) – if that’s what you want to do – but you gotta have a strategy that keeps you out of the “client zone.†Otherwise you’re just wasting a lot of time and money and you’re begging for disappointment. ldwn24, and I suspect many many others, have learned this the hard way.
Just my two cents, of course. I’m not the last word on any of this.
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Does anyone know what happened to this girl, Ttyna? It has been a month since she has bee online. Seems like she went poof. Is she working at another campsite, and/or under a different name?
Does anyone know what happened to this girl? She has not been online since April 30th and seems to have closed her Cam account under "Ttyna".
The camgirl Lucylee / Ttyna has reappeared as the model Kaleesi. I wonder why she closed the Ttyna account. Someone else must have been bitten by her. She has changed her hair back to the black she had as Lucylee. And she has gone from a princess to a mother of dragons. She is now from England instead of Germany.
I’m new here and came across this (old) thread by accident.
I agree with 90%+ of what John Doe (above) says here. These girls are working on these sites to make money, by hook or by crook. ldwm24 got burned by this chick, but… can you blame her? I cannot. The business is simple: separate the client from his money by any means necessary. Anyone who believes the things these girls are saying has no one to blame but themselves.
While lots of these girls are in relationships, plenty of them are not. Lots of singletons amongst the camgirl ranks. And many of them are very decent girls/women (this thread notwithstanding!). You can use these sites as, essentially, dating sites but… you have to take a very, very different approach than a typical client.
First, you cannot expect to meet one of these girls in person if your first (or continuing) interaction is watching her strip and masturbate (etc) for you. This is not reasonable. Your first impression is completely blown. You are a client right out of the box and this is *almost* impossible to change. It is helpful to have two accounts – one in which you can see what kind of naughty stuff the girl will do (and whether this appeals to you), and the other in which you can try to make a “connection†– for lack of a better word – as “friends†(that is, just chatting). And for your “friends†account you should probably have a reasonable “story†for why you’re there which reduces/removes the pervert/loser factor. Maybe you’re studying the industry for a business project, maybe you’re doing academic research… there are lots of feasible options here.
Second, you need to not spend too much money from your “friends†account because if you do… you start to look like a client which is, of course, bad. (What’s the right number here? I don’t know, it’s not set in stone and depends on the circumstances, but maybe a few hundred dollars.) You need to move your communications off the site as quickly as possible. If she allows this, she *might* be interested.
Third, if she asks for money for any reason… bail out. But… create an opportunity for you to send her some money early on (birthday, etc) that she did *not* ask for. Again, not more than a few hundred dollars – enough to be meaningful but not so much that it looks like you’re trying to impress her (although you will be). Explicitly state that she owes you nothing – it’s a gift. This will earn you points.
Fourth, it sure helps to learn their language. A lot of these girls speak pretty good English, especially the Romanians (so it’s unnecessary). But personally I really like the Latinas, so I speak almost-fluent Spanish. It helps a *whole* lot.
Anyhow, it is not difficult to meet these girls in person (whether to develop a relationship, have a travel companion, or whatever) – if that’s what you want to do – but you gotta have a strategy that keeps you out of the “client zone.†Otherwise you’re just wasting a lot of time and money and you’re begging for disappointment. ldwn24, and I suspect many many others, have learned this the hard way.
Just my two cents, of course. I’m not the last word on any of this.